ok i know this is an awkward question but i have to ask. i am 30 weeks and can no longer see my vagina. i am afraid there is a jungle. what solutions do i have? i have thought about asking for help from my husband but i don't want to kill our sex life..... PLEASE HELP!
Re: grooming down there??
Yup, if I can't see it, it's not really there!
I like it all gone so I just do it blind once a week. I don't have the energy or time or inclination to shower every day and (TMI) with all of the extra discharge down there I can't afford to have pubes that get all mucky! Once a week is about all I can take though as it is always a bit of hard work to get it done. I end up out of breath with itchy ankles from squatting in the shower and maneuvering around the big ole bump in order to get it all!
I tried using trimmers but they hurt in some spots and I declared trimmers too dangerous to do blindly.
I can't afford to get waxed and I've never done it. Besides, what about the trim? That's the most important part for me!
You have to figure out what works for you and why you want to do it. If it is simple vanity its probably not worth it. My vag may look kind of silly with a buzz cut one day and bald the next but it works for me because I am comfortable and I feel clean. If I was comfortable and clean doing nothing I wouldn't even bother! DH just has to deal, it is part of me being the barer of our child!
For the record, he doesnt care if im unshaved, i do.
Might be TMI but I asked DH for help and it majorly turned him ON... not off... See if he's open to it or not! Might end up being a good thing!